Co-Founder Retreat

Strengthen your startup's most important asset and avoid co-founder growing pains.

Fri, July 18th - Sat, July 19th

Friday at 10:30 am - Saturday at 10:30 am

Wicken Farm, North of London

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Co-Founder Alignment Day is led by your expert founder coaches -- Nathan Parcells and Cat Totty. Together, Nathan and Cat have coached over 100 co-founder teams backed by the world's leading venture capital firms including Sequoia, Khosla Ventures, A16Z, YC, and more. You can learn more about each of our backgrounds and coaching work in our bios below.

Learn the Skills and Best Practices Used By Leading Co-Founder Teams and Take Your Partnership to the Next Level

The day is for…

  • Venture-backed (scale-up) co-founder teams who have worked together for a while.
  • Co-founders looking to reflect on their partnership, learn best practices, and strengthen their partnership through an expertly facilitated program.
  • Co-founders experiencing signs of misalignment such as clashing leadership styles, lack of role clarity, mismatched expectations, stuckness, and other partnership growing pains.


You will come away with...

  • Critical co-founder skills including: a framework to deliver candid partner feedback, how to design a recurring co-founder sync, and methods to define and iterate co-founder roles as your scale.
  • An understanding of you and your co-founders’ unique communication styles, zones of genius, and personal operating systems.
  • Accelerated learning through facilitated group conversations with a curated set of similar-stage co-founding teams.
  • A clear picture of where you and your partnership need to grow to thrive in the next chapter of your startup.
  • Step-function progress on existing partnership challenges you are navigating.

Your Expert Facilitators

Nathan Parcells


Nathan is a seasoned founder coach and former exited founder. Nathan has spent the past 8 years working with 100+ founder clients and specializing in co-founder dynamics.

Nathan has helped co-founders navigate a range of challenges from overcoming deep interpersonal conflict to growing trust to changing co-founder roles. Nathan has worked with co-founder teams of all sizes -- from seed - $1b+ in revenue.

Nathan coaches co-founders backed by Khosla Ventures, Sequoia, A16Z, NextView, and more.

Cat Totty

Cat has worked for over 20 years with world-class entrepreneurs, leaders, creatives, scientists and adventurers, and consulted in 30+ startups and scaleups.

As coach, she’s worked with over 100 Founders and Co-Founders, leading one to one, small group and large peer learning settings.

She helps teams set and maintain effective ways of working together, align and evolve on vision and goals, and build their toolkit to master productive relationships and set great everyday culture in their businesses.

An Incredible Location

Wicken Farm is 2hrs from Kings Cross by train door to door - with the taxi from Downham Market Station to Wicken Farm organized by us and included in the price.


It is an expansive 4,000+ acre country estate with a rich history and miles of walking trails. Wicken Farm is the perfect setting to step away from your day-to-day duties and spend time exploring your partnership and company vision.

The day includes 3 fresh, healthy meals and snacks provided by Lucy, the exceptional on-site chef who will be supporting our work together.

What's Included:

  • Event Preparation. This includes a one-hour coaching session with Nathan or Cat and your full co-founding team to define your co-founder goals and receive curated readings and reflection prompts based on your goals.
  • Full-day (9 am - 7 pm) intensive facilitation at Wicken Farm with two expert founder coaches.
  • Two post-event co-founder coaching sessions. Each session will be 50 minutes with your full co-founder team to help you enact the skills, behavior shifts, and best practices you took away from "Co-Founder Alignment Day" and achieve your partnership goals.
  • Three meals prepared by an expert chef as well as refreshments and nourishment throughout the day.
  • Transportation between Wicken Farm and Downham Market is included. Train from London to Downham Market is not included.

The Investment:

This program has been designed to create transformational and lasting results for you and your partnership.

The all-in price for TWO Co-Founders to attend the "Co-Founder Retreat" is £7,350 (excluding VAT).

This includes:

-1 pre-event co-founder goal-setting session with Nathan and Cat (standard rate £750)

-2 post-event co-founder coaching sessions (standard total rate £1,500)

-1 full day of intensive co-founder facilitation for two people (standard rate £7,000)

-3 meals, transportation, and overnight accommodation at the Wicken for two people (standard rate £1,250)

Attending Co-Founder Retreat provides a 35% savings from Nathan and Cat's standard coaching rates.

Note:

The price for any additional co-founder, beyond two, to attend is £2000 (excluding VAT).

Space is limited. If you and your co-founder are interested in joining us, schedule a call with Nathan or Cat today to learn more.

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What Co-Founders Say About Working with Nathan and Cat:

"Nathan's work has had a transformative impact on my co-founder and I personally and our partnership.

Nathan helped us understand our unique communication styles and different ways of operating. Through this work, we were able to resolve several longstanding partnership issues. At a personal level, I now have much greater insight into myself and therefore much greater ability to lead. And, our team has noticed the difference."

Series B Khosla Ventures CEO

“Cat's coaching and deep questioning helped us achieve great revelations about our partnership.

Cat helped us form a language to describe our future, which has really energized us and formed the basis for a lot of change we are implementing in the business now. We avoided consensus sludge.”

Co-Founder, Digital Innovation

“Cat’s coaching has given us the space to effectively reflect and discuss our co-founder relationship.

This is something we struggle to do without scheduled time and expert support from Cat.

Cat has been instrumental in our growth and we feel very lucky to have her support.“


CEO and Co-Founder, AI

“One of the biggest reasons for startup failures is bad co-founder dynamics and co-founder breakups. Just like a marriage, it’s important to create time and space to actively work on your co-founder relationship.

From day one, Nathan helped us work on our communication with each other, and created space and frameworks for us to take risks with each other and get feedback in order to deepen our co-founder trust. This is especially helpful in a remote work setting where you have to be way more intentional in building the high-trust relationships required to build a successful company. Nathan has helped us so much with this. I recommend all co-founder teams do this intentional work to build a stronger partnership.”

Series A Sequoia Capital CEO

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